Read this if you need a reason to continue

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I love you

You might argue I don't even know you. But if people can hate when they don't even know someone, so can I, love you even if I don't know you.

For everyone that didn't hear this from parents, family, friends, love one,

I LOVE YOU, FOR BEING YOU. Thank you for being in my life, you made it better just being in it.

We might not know each other but thank you for being part of this society, you kind and amazing stranger.

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I am proud of you

Being in this pandemic is hell of a time but we made it through 2020, trust me, we can get through 2021 together. You can do this.

For everyone struggling with mental health,

I am proud of you for staying alive today.

For everyone that didn't hear this from parents, boss, teacher, love ones,

I am proud of your achievements. Your hard work are seen. You deserve the credit. You had your struggles but you keep pushing and made it through. You should be proud of yourself.

For queer family coming out but backlash by family, friends and society,

I am so so proud of you. Thank you for trusting me and come out to me. **virtual hugs

It takes tons courage and you did it! One day they will understand. They will love you for who you are. For now, love yourself more, love yourself with the part of their love too.

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I see you

For everyone fighting nightmares alone, fight through unspoken struggles, grow through uncomfortable environments,

I see you. You are strong. You are absolutely stunning. Take this crown and you rock!

You might not realise it and think that you are weak but remember the person you are one year ago? You should be proud going through pain and you grow.

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Thank you

For front liners who are never mentioned on media, teachers, babysitters, social workers, parents, students, children, essential workers, bosses and employees, kind strangers helping out each others during this trying time, to you,

Thank you so much. Thank you for being a part of the world. Thank you for staying in your position even if your mental health is deteriorated by being so. Thank you for taking care of us. Thank YOU.

Please take care your mental health, you deserve some rest, you are doing great. Keep doing what you do to help the world and never let anyone discouraged you. You have our support, we got your back. Come on social media, let us send you some love and support.

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I'm sorry

For you that never received the apology,

I am sorry your are hurt. And have to accept an apology that never came.

Forgive the past younger you not because they apologies but because you deserve to be free. You are not what you did not consent to. You are your own person. You do not owe your parents, bosses, abusive partner, anyone your sanity. You are not a burden. You are loved.

Get help from local supporting community. Contact NGOs, government help resources, help hotline, international support group. Read my article on NGOs on Malaysia to get help with gender violence.

Reach out for help is the first step to help yourself. You are strong and brave. You can do this.

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You are loved. Always. Have a day. Instead of have a nice day just have a day today. It's okay to not be productive today. Text your low maintenances friends for more love and support! Sincerely, Queen.